Gay bars and lesbian bars are some of the oldest and most enduring community spaces our community has — the places where queer culture gets made, friendships get formed, and a night out turns into a story you tell for years. Gaytherings collects what's happening inside them: drag shows, theme nights, trivia, karaoke, DJ residencies, holiday events, charity nights, gay happy hours, and the special bookings that make any given week worth showing up for.
Browse upcoming events at gay bars, lesbian bars, and queer clubs across Los Angeles, San Francisco, and New York. Whether you're looking for a lively Friday night, a dive bar Tuesday, a drag brunch, or a quiet happy hour, you'll find it here — across iconic venues and the newer spots quietly becoming favorites.
We work with venues directly and welcome bar and club operators to list their full event calendars for free. Every listing is verified as genuinely LGBTQIA+.