Saturday, October 31 · 8:00 PM – 11:00 PM PDT
Folsom Community Centre · 1286 Folsom St, San Francisco, CA 94103
Join San Fran’s ENM & Polly Halloween mixer for costumes, connection, playful games and a best-dressed competition. Come make new friends! 🎃 A little spooky. A little flirty. A whole lot of connection. Join us at Folsom Community Center in San Francisco for a Halloween mixer for the ethical non-monogamy and polyamory community. Whether you’re coming to make friends, meet potential connections or simply enjoy Halloween with people who understand your relationship style, you’re welcome here. Come solo, with a partner or with friends. Your host, Polly Mae from School of ENM, is visiting from Australia and bringing people together for three hours of costumes, conversation and playful fun. 👻 What to expect Structured icebreakers and games to help you meet people and get conversations flowing. Time to mingle and follow the conversations you’re enjoying. Intention wristbands to indicate whether you’re looking for friendship only or are open to other connections. A consent briefing to help everyone feel comfortable approaching others and expressing their boundaries. A best-dressed competition, so bring your Halloween creativity! 💚 Connection without pressure This is a social, non-play party. There’s no expectation to flirt, date or connect romantically. Friendship is a wonderful reason to come. Wristbands help start conversations, but they never replace consent. Ask before touching, respect people’s boundaries and accept a “no” kindly. 🕸️ New to the community? You don’t need to have everything figured out to join us. Bring your curiosity, respect for others and willingness to meet someone new. Dress up, come as you are, and spend Halloween making connections beyond the apps. By purchasing a ticket you affirm: 1. I am at least 18 years old and acknowledge that I am participating in a private event, not open to the general public. I may be required to show a valid ID containing my photo, full legal name, and date of birth to prove my age and identity. I may leave at any time. 2. I may witness nudity, sexual activity, bondage/discipline, sadomasochism, and/or power exchange between consenting adults. I find none of these subjects or activities offensive or objectionable. 3. I will follow all rules of both the event and the venue. Failure to follow any rules is considered a violation of this agreement, and you may be asked to leave the event. 4. These activities carry an inherent risk of physical injury or other harm. Participation in any activity is voluntary. Should I choose to take part in any activity, it is my responsibility to inform myself of potential risks of the activity and any equipment involved and to take part only with my fully informed consent. 5. I assume all risk of injury or physical harm incident to my attendance at this event or participation in any activity. I agree to hold harmless Folsom Street, the Folsom Street Board of Directors, volunteer staff, members, and guests. I agree to hold harmless the Folsom Street Community Center, its employees, property owners, and their agents and successors. I relinquish any claim of liability which may arise due to my attendance or participation in this event. 6. Attendance at this event does not indicate or imply consent to engage in any contact or activity with any other person. Prior consent must be obtained from other persons before engaging in any contact or activity with them. Consent once given may be revoked at any time, at which time all contact or activity must immediately stop. 7. The safeword during any event hosted at FSCC is “RED.” Calling “RED” indicates that the participant desires all activity to stop immediately or as quickly as is safe to do so. 8. All attendees have the right to have their chosen gender identity and sexuality recognized. Attendees have the right to use and be known by the pronouns and other words of identity that they choose. If unsure of a person’s pronouns, politely ask them what pronoun to use. Intentional misgendering is violent and unacceptable at FSCC. 9. Admittance may be refused to anyone who appears to be under the influence of alcohol or any drug. 10. Audio/video recording and photography are allowed/prohibited at the discretion of the host. Attendees and participants must be notified that recording or photography will take place. 11. None of these are allowed on our premises: alcohol, beverage, and food sales (merch is fine), fire, smoke, guns, any illegal activity. 12. No access allowed to the roof. 13. No weight-bearing on top of ADA bathroom 14. Failure to follow these guidelines may result in my expulsion from the space without refund.