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Trick or Tease
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Trick or Tease

Wed, Oct 28Revolver
From $17.63including fees
SAPPHIC NIGHT 11/21 | PLAYBACK SUNDAZE
LesbianPrivate eventsRaves & partiesMusicCommunity

SAPPHIC NIGHT 11/21 | PLAYBACK SUNDAZE

Sat, Nov 21Gremlin Garage
From $11.15including fees
Latinx / Hispanic Day Party | Playback Sundaze
MixedArts & cultureBIPOCCommunityFestivalsMusicPlay & gamesPrivate eventsRaves & parties

Latinx / Hispanic Day Party | Playback Sundaze

Sun, Oct 25Gremlin Garage
Free
UNLABLD
MixedRaves & parties

UNLABLD

Sat, Oct 24Long Beach, CA
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QUENTOS, Volume II
MixedArts & cultureBIPOCShows & performancesCommunity

QUENTOS, Volume II

Fri, Oct 30Davidson / Valentini Theatre
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Dungeon
MixedRaves & parties

Dungeon

Fri, Oct 30Long Beach, CA
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The Floor Show: Rocky Horror Drag Paraody
Queer+BarsClubsCommunityDragShows & performances

The Floor Show: Rocky Horror Drag Paraody

Fri, Oct 30WERK Long Beach
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Halloween Organ, Film & Music - Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde at Walt Disney Concert Hall
MixedArts & cultureMusicShows & performances

Halloween Organ, Film & Music - Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde at Walt Disney Concert Hall

Sat, Oct 31Walt Disney Concert Hall
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in the same place
MixedArts & cultureCommunityNetworkingSupport groupsShows & performances

in the same place

Fri, Oct 23ONE Archives at the USC Libraries
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10.24 - Saturday is Girls Night Out at SRO
LesbianBarsCommunityMusicNetworkingShows & performances

10.24 - Saturday is Girls Night Out at SRO

Sat, Oct 24The SRO Lounge
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10.24 - Saturdays @ OR Bar
MixedBarsCommunityMusicNetworking

10.24 - Saturdays @ OR Bar

Sat, Oct 24OR Bar
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10.24 - Saturday Haus of Chill
GayBarsCommunityMusicNetworking

10.24 - Saturday Haus of Chill

Sat, Oct 24Chill Bar
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PALM SPRINGS DRAG BRUNCH - THE BTCHIEST BRUNCH at Oscar's Palm Springs SAT
MixedBrunchDrag

PALM SPRINGS DRAG BRUNCH - THE BTCHIEST BRUNCH at Oscar's Palm Springs SAT

Sat, Oct 24Oscar's Downtown Palm Springs
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I LOVE FUNK: Kool & The Gang, Zapp, The Sugarhill Gang, Rose Royce & MORE
MixedFestivals

I LOVE FUNK: Kool & The Gang, Zapp, The Sugarhill Gang, Rose Royce & MORE

Sat, Oct 24Pershing Square
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10.24 - RetroRoom Lounge Saturdays
MixedBarsCommunityMusicNetworkingPlay & games

10.24 - RetroRoom Lounge Saturdays

Sat, Oct 24RetroRoom Lounge
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10.24 2026 San Diego Zombie Crawl | 2 Halloween Weekends: Oct 23, 24, 29, 30, 31
MixedRaves & partiesArts & culture

10.24 2026 San Diego Zombie Crawl | 2 Halloween Weekends: Oct 23, 24, 29, 30, 31

Sat, Oct 24American Junkie
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BITE
MixedDatingMusicNetworkingShows & performances

BITE

Sat, Oct 24PS UNDERGROUND
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10.24 - Saturday NIghts
GayBarsMusicNetworking

10.24 - Saturday NIghts

Sat, Oct 24Falcon LB
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Eli-Mac with Cruz Roots and Lowtide
MixedMusicShows & performances

Eli-Mac with Cruz Roots and Lowtide

Sat, Oct 24The Harp
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Hot Flash Halloween + 4 Year Anniversary Party
LesbianBarsBIPOCClubsRaves & parties

Hot Flash Halloween + 4 Year Anniversary Party

Sat, Oct 24Dragonfly Hollywood
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